100 Pedals

Significant Outcomes in the Face of Adversity

## Turn off the label maker

November 4, 2025 by Dave Cooke Leave a Comment

In the midst of a conversation last week, the person I was sharing perspectives with changed the course of the conversation by asking me about my political/social ideology. Even though I did proceed to share my perspectives and values, I found the question frustrating and disappointing. This happens far too often in our society!!

I am a person not simply or easily labeled by my ideologies or beliefs. No one is!

Like everyone else, I have a unique set of experiences, perspectives, gifts, talents, beliefs, commitments, hopes, dreams, and aspirations!

It is way too easy to place someone into a bucket or clump them into a predefined group than to actually spend time getting to know, understand, respect, and empathize with their perspectives and life story. It is much simpler to discover how to categorize or define them — Christian, Muslim, Jew, Black, White, Hispanic, Affluent, Poor, Liberal or Conservative — so we can move on if and when their world view doesn’t comply or align with ours.

There is so much to be learned from another person’s perspective, story, reality, and beliefs. Relying on previous stereotypical experiences to dismiss or ignore the experience, insights, and uniqueness of another individual breeds ignorance and arrogance, not love and understanding.

When interacting with another person, take this approach:

- Discover what you have in common with them. Remember that every one you engage has at least one thing in common with you.
- Learn from their story. Like you, everyone has a unique story — hear it, learn from it, and appreciate it.
- Seek to understand before you are understood. Leave your judgments, criticisms, and predispositions out of the conversation. Make a commitment to understand, inquire, and challenge not dismiss, criticize, or stereotype. You can create much from listening, learning, and understanding.
- Be grateful. Every person that comes into your life is a gift, even those that can easily frustrate you. They are in your life for a reason — share your love, offer your gifts, and receive from them what they have to offer. You will be enriched by the interaction.

The challenges we face in our world today are monumental. There are no clear cut, easy answers. The path to these solutions require human interaction, engagement, and understanding. We each have an opportunity to make a difference. One of the critical steps to this process is to avoid labeling others, judging them, or cutting off the conversation because of what we believe we know about them. Remember, each and every one of us is unique, special, and talented. Discover and share that gift.

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## Be Grateful and Celebrate Your Successes

January 8, 2026 by Dave Cooke Leave a Comment

Day 8: 20.7 miles/1:14

“Take the time to express your gratitude and celebrate your success everyday”

What a wonderful way to start any day. In the ongoing dullness of our daily routines, very rarely do we realize how much we accomplish or how much we have to be grateful for. In our chaotic or challenging environment, it is often even harder to find time to be appreciative or celebratory. That is why this exercise is so important. It encourages us to take a moment and be positive about something daily. This exercise generates positive energy that carries us forward and can often be contagious to us and those around us.

Progress can often be very difficult to measure. Losing two pounds a week is measurable. Changing clothing sizes is not. How much weight do you have to lose before someone notices? In my experience it is somewhere around 15 pounds. That is seven weeks of work before anyone says something. Seven weeks. That is a lot of work. If it weren’t for the scale detailing progress, it almost wouldn’t be worth it.

At work, promotions simply don’t happen overnight. Some people have been in their job two or three years before they get a big raise or a promotion or a new opportunity. That is a lot of work for seemingly little real progress. It’s hardly worth the effort.

Taking the time to register gratitude and an accomplishment every day is a great way to positively acknowledge that progress is being made. Writing them down makes it official. On that one day when feeling particularly low, frustrated, or unsuccessful you can simply refer to the book and make note of all you have accomplished. If nothing else, it serves to reinforce that progress is being made and will likely keep you moving forward.

Gratitude and accomplishments are an affirmative way to chart progress. The goal itself may seem a long way off. It may appear unattainable or out of reach, maybe even completely out of sight. All that is available is the commitment to accomplishing something and a process to chart your progress. Armed with those two things, anything can be accomplished provided you stay on course. Daily gratitude and accomplishments help keep you on course.

Though progress is often hard to measure, accomplishments and gratitude can be measured and recorded daily. When I think about these rides, I am celebrating eight consecutive days on my bike. If I track it against my goal, I am only 8% of the way. When I look at this in terms of accomplishments, I just tied my personal best for consecutive rides. That means tomorrow will be a personal best nine consecutive rides—a new record and something to celebrate. Do I know I can get these 100 rides in? Yes, I am pretty confident and optimistic. Of course, I have yet to deal with an obstacle. And, I don’t know what obstacles I will have to deal with. Besides I do not have to deal with those right now. When the time comes I am confident I will celebrate my success in overcoming them. In the meantime, I am simply focusing on my progress one day, one celebration, and one gratitude at a time.

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